50 Years Of Learning

On September 3rd, I turn 50.    Y’all, it’s weird as hell.  It’s a number that doesn’t feel like it fits but I know I’ve been through a lot.    In an effort to be somewhat introspective, I sat down to make a list of what I know so far. I don’t know if it will…

Past, Present and The Ghosts That Haunt Us

Please be advised there are trigger warnings for issues surrounding sexual assault, oppressive language, suicidal ideation, homophobia, abuse, abortion.           “If I ever see that faggot again, I will fucking kill him.”   I felt my stomach lurch.  I was 13 and in the midst of a sexual awaking I didn’t…

Dysfunction, Lies and the Ties that Bind Them

This has been a roller coaster of a year for my family.  Since March I have finished up some really cool cooking classes, learned to make rain barrels (I have 3!), seen some good movies (and some bad ones), had a TON road trips, some archery tournaments and had some really great times with the…